用心的妈妈,不用太自我批评啦,能开亲子读书会,这本身就勇气可嘉、值得佩服了:)
在小书房学习近半年了,在论坛上,看到妈妈们用各种方式和孩子一起阅读,为了给自己和孩子留点美好的记忆,我也依葫画瓢地开起了亲子读书会。
一、前期准备工作:
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请柬是妈妈排版和裁剪,儿子粘贴的。
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初衷是想让儿子自己动手写请柬的内容,要写近10份的请柬,数百字的汉字对于一年级的孩子来说,有点难度,于是改变使用打印,儿子负责粘贴和写上被邀请人的姓名。
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第一次举办亲子读书会,把流程记录下来,免得届时手忙脚乱。
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其中的一个环节——脑筋急转弯,共20道题,分两组PK。
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心有灵犀游戏中有四类内容:动物、昆虫类,植物、其它类,水果食品类和词组、成语类;涵盖了孩子课文上所学的一些知识。
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活动前的晚上——星期五,我和儿子、侄女一起布置了房间。儿子帮忙打气球,侄女帮忙叠被子,儿子说:“好期待明天的到来!”
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这是给孩子们准备的点心和礼品,没想到孩子们都很喜欢。
二、活动过程
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为了让孩子尽快熟悉环境,一进门,我就将玩具搬至客厅让孩子玩,结果,在接下来的活动环节中,蒋桉政、毛翊恺和儿子这三个小朋友更多的注意力都玩具上,时不时眼球就被玩具吸引住了。下次活动时,要待活动之后,再把玩具拿出来给孩子玩。
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在讲故事、心有灵犀环节中,俞圣杰和陈子尧两位小朋友给我留下了很深的印象。这两位小朋友对故事的专注和理解能力,比其余的孩子都强。特别是俞圣杰在讲完故事后,同学们都在玩玩具时,他能做到不受干扰的看着书,这一点我很欣赏他。还有陈子尧积极、大方、自信是其它孩子要向她学习的,尤其是在“心有灵犀”的环节中,这位女孩对词组的理解、表达,不是一般一年级孩子能达到的水平,她妈妈在活动中,给出的几点建议,很有独特之处。(比如子尧妈妈将学习贯穿于日常生活中的每一处,每一时;还有提出了活动中要分组讨论、定队长等想法,以及给孩子提示答题时的技巧,如提示想好了再抢答等,还有这位妈妈的语言表达能力极强,等等方面就可看出这位妈妈的高素养。)
从这次的活动中,我也看到自己在孩子教育中的盲点,以往,总认为自己是个称职、用心的妈妈,从这次活动中,我也感觉到儿子在待人接物、遵守规则、认真听讲、大胆表达等方面和别人存在一定的差距,在以后的成长中,还得克服对自己的自满,做儿子的好朋友,和孩子一同成长。